Follow a modern mommy as she learns to bask in God's love, strives towards healthiness, creates homemade hair products and lovingly fulfills her role as a wife and mother, all while not losing her mind...sort of
Saturday, October 31, 2009
Product Junkie Review: RenPure Organics
Disney's African American Princess-Tiana
Mommy's Corner: A review of Good Hair
- It showed the importance of Hair Saloons and Barbershops and their link to the black community- Even Obama knew that if wanted to get the African American vote he would have to frequent barbershops and Salons.
- The film showed the absurdity of Relaxers- ladies (and men) if it can disintegrate a soda can, what do you think it will do to your hair?
- Chris Rock captured the sad and tragic development of Indian Women cutting their hair in a temple so that Indian Remy can be sold in your local Korean beauty store.
- The elaborate Hair show that was ... you just have to see it to believe it.
- The crazy amount of money that some women will pay for fake hair. A $1000.00, you have got to be kidding me.
What the film lacked was:
- A wide representation of Natural women who have made a conscious decision to wear their hair as it grows from their scalp.
- A closer look at the Korean take -over of manufacturing and distribution of black hair care products.
- Why black women want to embrace a Eurocentric standard of beauty, even if it is unattainable.
Anyways, with all that being said, the scene that made me cringe was when the six year old was getting a perm in her hair. Sad, but we do not understand the physical and psycho-social implications that occurs when we neglect our baby girl's hair and opt to perm it to make it "more manageable". In later post, I plan to do a series about what hair is, what products to avoid, basic hair care for your little one, and how to make hair grow, whether relaxed, natural or pressed.
Lastly, my mom (who is always opinionated) was shocked about the money that flows to the Korean merchants, the cost of weaves ( she has never wore a weave) and the Indian women in the temples. Yet, I do not think that my mom fully understands natural hair, as she stated to me after the movie " You should be happy you have good hair and it is not Nappy" OUCH. My mom also said "It looks unprofessional for black men to wear dreds" Double OUCH. Since she feels that way, I plan to invite my brother in Christ to post some pictures of his beautiful locs, and yes, he is a professional man.....
Friday, October 30, 2009
What is Good Hair?
Be Inspired to take the journey
Inspiration
LuvMeNatural: A mom and daughters natural hair journey
For me, the journey to natural really began when Taylor AKA Lil Mama's was born, even though I did not know it at the time. After I counted ten fingers and ten toes, I looked at her hair. Yes, I wanted to see if she had "good hair". After months passed and her hair remained soft and curly, I sighed relief and mentally made plans to put a relaxer in her hair when she turned ten years old. I thought this was the only way ladies. However, as the months went on, I was amazed at the curls that grew on her hair. Beautiful and healthy was the only way to describe them. It was at this point that I really began to wonder about my own natural hair. I thought about locs at first because I knew that most women and men could grow their hair long. After a year of research, hair raising experiments and losing damaged hair, I knew I wanted to be free from the lye, forever. One morning I just woke up and had an epiphany ( I will talk about this later), called my sistergirl, who is also a hairdresser and told her I wanted to BIG CHOP. From the moment my hair hit the floor, I felt liberated and free. I felt BEAUTIFUL. Not only did I learn to embrace my kinky hair, but I gained so much knowledge to help maintain Lil Mamas hair.